Welcome to the Find Your Voice, Change Your Life podcast. You will hear real-life stories from people who struggled to find their authentic voice.
I’m your host, Dr. Doreen Downing.
I interview people who share how they overcame their fears about stepping up and speaking out. They each offer tips and strategies that you can apply to your own journey to find your voice and change your life.
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#105 Finding Flow in Conversation and in Life
Today I interview Denise Blanc. Denise grew up in Chicago where she had close relationships with her siblings and looked up to her parents – but in different ways. Her father was very intelligent, a “man’s man” who was good with numbers. Her mother ran a tight ship at home, always desiring that the house and children be presentable at all times.

#104 Expressways to Conflict Resolution
Today, I interview Phil Blagg. In this captivating interview, we delve into a revelation that has remained hidden for the entirety of his life until now. Throughout the years, Phil guarded a family secret with unwavering dedication, keeping it locked away from the world. As we explore how keeping that secret affected him on his extraordinary journey, it becomes apparent that Phil’s experiences may strike a chord within you

#103 From Introverted Perfectionist to Mindful Lawyer
Today I interview Claire E. Parsons, a successful lawyer who practices in Ohio. Both of her parents were lawyers, and her sister was born just 15 months before her. Growing up, Claire was quiet and introverted. Her sister, on the other hand, was very extroverted and enjoyed being the center of attention. Claire felt pressure to be the “good girl” and excel in everything she did.

#102 From Self-Doubt to Center Stage
Today, I interview Iris Goldfeder, an entrepreneur, professional musician, and co-owner of Gas Stove Creative. Iris shares her journey of pursuing her passion for music and overcoming stage fright. Despite struggling with self-doubt and throwing up before auditions, Iris joined the band Brave and Crazy and felt that her presence made a difference.

#101 Exploring Consciousness and Discovering One’s Self
Today I interview Nicholas Whitaker who shares his journey of finding his place in the world. He felt out of place in his hometown and decided to leave, which led him to Baltimore where he struggled with poverty and lived with a woman that was not a good fit. For years, he lived in unstable housing, including his car and squat buildings, while working in restaurants and coffee shops to make ends meet.

#100 From Sports to Speeches: Discovering Your Authenticity and Leadership
Today I interview my husband, Earl Downing, and we’ll explore the theme of finding one’s voice and expressing their essence. Earl recounts his experiences with sports and how they gave him a safe and therapeutic outlet to be loud and expressive.

#99 Rewriting Your Childhood Stories
Today, I interview Calvin Niles who was raised in Barbados, a small island in the Caribbean. He had a loving environment, but his father was a strict disciplinarian who made sure his children minded their manners. His father’s discipline style instilled in him a need for approval and reinforced a carrot-and-stick mentality. The school system was also quite rigid, and physical punishment was common.

#98 Ask Questions, Listen, Learn, and Rise
Today, I interview Sabrina Victoria who grew up in the suburbs of Chicago, and her parents were Jehovah’s Witnesses. They had been converted when Sabrina was five, and from then on, her upbringing was strict, religious, and submissive. In keeping with their new faith, Sabrina followed the rules.

#97 Grounding, Power, and the Intimacy of Being Real
Today, I interview Sonja Rayne Lee. Unfortunately, part of Sonja’s story includes childhood trauma, so there was a lot for her to overcome from a young age. At 12 she was molested. Luckily, her family immediately put her in therapy so she could begin working through it. But it was hard.

#96 Your Self-Worth is Infinite
Today, I interview Jeff Davis. Unfortunately, Jeff’s childhood was filled with bullying. He was a late bloomer, so he was the little guy surrounded by other boys who were getting tall and growing up. Because of this, he didn’t have a girlfriend and he was teased a lot. He also had a lisp and a self-soothing habit of sucking his thumb, and people often beat him up, called him names, and told him he was worthless and stupid.